Category Archives: Quotes to Live By

Because finding amazing quotes to live by is like finding buried treasure. These are my very favorite quotes to live by, and the reasons they’ve heavily impacted my life. I’ve tried to choose a good spread. Some of these quotes to live by are excerpts of poetry, others are lines of philosophy, and still others are just simple, profound, old world wisdom. I hope you find them both powerful and amazing.

Quotes to Live By — Romantic Thoughts

The last quote to live by that I mentioned was from my favorite time period, the ancient world.  It got me searching through all the other quotes to live by from that time period that I haven’t read in a really long time.  One in particular, was a romantic quote from the ancient Persian poet, Rumi.  His quote actually was one of the first influential quotes in my life that set my mind a’pondering romantic thoughts, and eventually convincing me that I ought to be a romantic.

“Your task is not to seek love, but merely to find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”  Rumi

When I was younger, I was confronted with a question: “Should I try and find the right person, or try and be the right person?”  Everyone wants to find love, but most people spend all their time searching for the right person without ever giving much thought to becoming the right person for someone else.  When I was younger, I spent so much time looking for that perfect someone.  But then I read quotes like this one, and they made me wonder, what kind of man would that perfect someone want to fall in love with?  Should I be spending all my time looking for her, or should I be spending more of my time becoming the kind of man that a girl like that could really fall in love with?

I chose the latter, to be a romantic, and I set out to remove the barriers to love that I had built within myself.  Of all the romantic quotes to live by I’ve come across, this one has been the most powerful.  It inspired the romantic thoughts that make me who I am today.  I very much hope you enjoyed it!


Quotes to Live By — He Who Clings to His Work

This second installment of quotes to live by comes from one of my favorite eras, the ancient world.  I don’t know why, but there’s an extra spark of something indefinable that comes from quotes that are many thousands of years ago.  When a completely different culture that existed thousands of years ago says something that resonates with you, it carries an extra magic with it, a wonder and awe that someone so distant in culture and time could even impart a wisdom that would resonate deeply with someone who grew up in the fast pace society of modern America.  So, without further ado, here is one of my favorite quotes to live by from the Tao Te Ching:

“He who stands on tiptoe
doesn’t stand firm.
He who rushes ahead
doesn’t go far.
He who tries to shine
dims his own light.
He who defines himself
can’t know who he really is.
He who has power over others
can’t empower himself.
He who clings to his work
will create nothing that endures.”

I love, first of all, how the entire quote is set up in diametrically opposite couplets, that is, everything is black and white.  There’s one side, and there’s the other side. It really helps me to see myself clearer when I think of things in black and white.  Each of these pairings is meaningful enough to be a quote to live by, and this entire stanza resonates with me, but the last two pairings speak especially powerfully to me.  “He who has power over others can’t empower himself.”  How true that is when you stop to think about it.  The only person I can and should control is me.

But my favorite is the last pairing, “He who clings to his work will create nothing that endures.”  This year has been one of many failings for me.  I’ve worked very hard at many projects and had to slowly watch many of them fail.  My first instinct was to just keep at it, keep trying, be diligent.  But that only filled me will strife and anxiety.  Learning not to cling to my work was one of the hardest but most meaningful lessons I’ve ever learned.

And finally, I also really like the middle pairing because it clashes so heavily with the current American philosophical mentality.  “He who defines himself can’t know who he really is.”  Current American philosophy says that each of us creates our own meaning and each of us defines himself and herself.  But according to this, and also what I hold to be true, meaning and the definition of what it means to truly be human exists outside of us.  It defines us, we don’t define it.

Thanks for reading my favorite quotes to live by.  I very much hope you enjoyed!

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Quotes to Live By — Robert Frost

This is the first quote to live by in my new category.  I thought it might be fun to have a category dedicated to the meaningful quotes that have really impacted my life.  This quote to live by comes from the last stanza in a Robert Frost poem titled “Reluctance”.

“Ah, when to the heart of man
Was it ever less than a treason
To go with the drift of things,
To yield with a grace to reason,
And bow and accept the end
Of a love or a season?”

I love this short poetic stanza because it reminds me that I should never live my life in resignation to the status quo, that I should always fight to hold onto the good things I’ve found.  How often in life do we find ourselves bowing and accepting the end of a love or a season?  Even though I’m still somewhat young, I know that letting important things slip away is one of the most haunting realizations later in life.  I don’t want to look back on my life with regret.  And so, I’ve adopted this quote to live by as one of my all time favorites.  I hope it means a lot to you as well.


Quotes to Live By — Quiet Desperation


The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.”



This quote to live by, by Henry David Thoreau, has always haunted my thoughts.  In a way, it’s not a quote to live by, but rather, a quote to remember when I find myself living how I know I shouldn’t.  Whenever I find myself settling for good enough, this quiet desperation comes and begins to haunt me, telling me that I’m wasting the one thing I can never afford to lose, time.  Something in my heart won’t let me get away with resignation, and the quiet desperation creeps in to convince me to live for something more.  I often pair Thoreau’s quote with another quote by C.S. Lewis.

Indeed, if we consider the unblushing promises of reward and the staggering nature of the rewards promised in the Gospels, it would seem that our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea.  We are far too easily pleased.



The idea of desire is something that man has been talking about for many thousands of years.  Whether it be the Stoics and Epicureans of ancient Greece, or the Taoists of ancient China, a wide array of questions has arisen throughout time over this question of desire.  What is good in life to desire, how strongly should I desire it and fight for it?  As I think about this life of mine, I strangely find that I cannot be fully satisfied unless I know that I have fought for something truly extraordinary.  If I haven’t, if I’ve allowed myself to settle for that which sits right before my eyes, I feel the nagging sense of quiet desperation creep into my heart and mind.


I  hate that I often desire things which in the end prove hollow.  I often feel like the child Lewis describes, settling for mud pies because I just can’t fully understand the better things that are out there to find.  My new prayer for life is an excerpt, part of the last paragraph from Mountainside.  “How wonderful it is to simply be full, to travel about a day or an hour in the world, feeling the fullness of things. How often does life prove less than this? How often is fullness replaced by a dull numbness, half-hearted creatures half-heartedly taking in a rich world? Though I walk through trials and pain and the mundane, I will feel them all in their fullness. Whatever this life may bring, let it be rich and fill my heart. Even in sorrow, be this wish still true — even in grief, let fullness be glad.”



Ten Quotes To Live By

In my studies of philosophy and poetry, I’ve come across a lot of really cool quotes to live by.  And though I wanted to write them all down, instead, I gave myself a limit of 10 quotes to live by.  I really hope you enjoy them!



1) My favorite quote of all time is a simple one from Morocco:

“He who has nothing to die for has nothing to live for.”

How we often live for less than what we ought, spending our hope on things that never could really satisfy. It is my ambition, as a man who knows that life is short, to fill up my life with things worth fighting for, worth hoping for, worth dying for. Knowing that life is short, how can any of us live any other way?


2) Next is from my favorite author, Henry David Thoreau:

“When we are unhurried and wise we perceive that only great and worthy things have any absolute and permanent existence, that petty fears and petty pleasures are but the shadow of reality.”

I have often loved times of solitude, retreating out to the lonely morning places of nature to sit and ponder life, feeling connected to that grand, elusive scheme intertwining all of humankind. It is only when I am unhurried and wise that I remember what life really is. I remember that I am just a part of the powerful play, that I am no better than other men who have come before me, that my fire will burn for just a little while and then go out in this world.


3) Next is from ancient Chinese poetry, the Tao Te Ching:

“He who overcomes others is strong. He who overcomes himself is mighty.”

Who among us can boast that they have overcome themselves? Who among us can boast that they have rid themselves of the vice that often peppers the soul like grass of the field? Lord willing, I will one day be given the grace to overcome myself. It is the task assigned to each of us.


4) The next quote goes along with the previous one. From Mark 8 in the Bible:

“Whoever wants to save his life will lose it. But whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.”

Why do we hold on so hard to the foolish things we think we want? Isn’t it better to trust the One who knows us better than we know ourselves?


5) Next is a quote I found on the side of a building in Minnesota, oddly enough:


“The great privilege has been given to all to develop strength of character.”

Developing strength of character is available to all, yet who among us diligently strives after it? The old rule applies: when something is free, it’s not often valued.


6) Another old Chinese Proverb:

“Vision without action is a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare.”

I’ve always been a dreamer. But dreams without character, hard work, and determination, are just fanciful imaginings. One of the saddest things in life is a person with beautiful dreams who lacks the diligence and perseverance to make his dreams a reality. Dreams, in that way, can be a curse, haunting their keeper with regret all his days. I refuse to look back on my life, when I am old, with regret, realizing that I was nothing more than a daydreamer. I will strive to have both vision and action.


7) Next is an excerpt from a poem by John Greenleaf Whittier:

“Of all sad words of tongue or pen

The saddest are these ‘It might have been!’”


What is sadder in life than looking back and saying that it might have been? Regret can be one of the worst things in life. I pray often to to the Lord to help me live life to the full, without regrets.


8) Next is another quote by Henry David Thoreau, from his book Walden about why he went off to live by himself in the woods.

“I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived. I did not wish to live what was not life, living is so dear, nor did I wish to practice resignation unless it was quite necessary. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life, to live so sturdily and spartan-like as to put to rout all that was not life.”

This quote touched me deeply the first time I read it. It convicted me of all the ways I was living in resignation. It gave me the resolve to make my life something worth living.


9) A quote from one of my favorite authors C.S. Lewis, from his book The Great Divorce.

“Reality is harsh to the feet of shadows.”

People often live from the shadows, harboring secret pain or secret desires. But living from the shadows was never meant for human beings. We become the shadows we hide in, and real life no longer suits us.


10) The last and final quote is an excerpt from one of Tennyson’s poems. It needs no explanation:


“Come, my friends.
‘Tis not too late to seek a newer world…
for my purpose holds
To sail beyond the sunset, and the baths
Of all the western stars…

and tho’
We are not now that strength which in old days
Moved earth and heaven, that which we are, we are –
One equal temper of heroic hearts,
Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will
To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.
”





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